Being Anti Social
Wednesday, July 17, 2019
Did you ever felt lonely, anxiety, and anti social? Maybe, its because you are addicted enough to social media. You probably knew that nowadays we lived in globalization era, which everything has become global and everyone wanted to showed off. It is easier to made everything today. Only with a click, we can do something we wanted. With social media we knew about the trending news and topic. Also could widely interacted with other. However, everything in this world has two sides. If we could make it useful, that's positive. Yet, if social media made us anti social, that's negative.
I ever felt that social media has controlled my whole life. I captured every moment and published it on instagram. It is felt like i must shared all of my activities to other, to make them said 'wow' to me. It's useless, wasting time. Also i often envy with what others reached only by seeing their instagram post. When my friend shared their journey's photo, bought a new car, has a new big house. That's insane but i dont know how to avoid it. I wasted more than hours only to looked to my phone, scrolled up and down. The moment i ussually laugh and told story together became quietly, everyone focused on their phone. We are social beings but why social media made us anti social? Come on, back to reality!
But today, i can controlled my phone. I do used social media but not as intense as i've done before. Focused on something real, enjoyed the moment, got the real quality time with my family and friends. I've done the challenge, to closed my social media for a month. All of it, instagram, twitter, and etc. Except youtube and whatsapp, because i dont think that they are so addicted. I felt something different. In the first week, i felt crazy, dont know what to do, anxiety, FOMO, and many more. It fells like a drugs enthusiast. Yet after a weeks, it is quiet different. That was happy and enjoyable. Either using it or not, remember that we are the real controller for ourself. Never let anything controlled you. Use your social media wisely and dont forget to socialize. Enjoy your life. Everything is fake in social media, the real one is what you see right now.
Through this writing i wanted to challenge you by closing your social media for a month. If u can't, try for a week. Yet, if u feel hard, try for only twenty four. Feel the different!
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